About Mediation
Q. What is mediation?
A. Mediation is a voluntary process that restores communication so people can solve their own problems and make peace with each other. We provide a neutral environment in which a trained peacemaker (mediator) leads people through a process of discussion so that they can resolve their differences. We don’t provide answers. We don’t dictate decisions. But we do help people communicate with each other so that they can reach agreement.
Q. Why use mediation?
A. Mediation offers an effective alternative to the legal system. Most mediation meetings are scheduled within two weeks, and the actual meeting usually requires ninety minutes or less. The same case could take weeks or months in court. The agreements are written up by the mediator, signed by the parties, and are viewed as legally binding.
Q. How does mediation work?
A. When you call us, we will set up a time for both parties to meet at our office with a trained mediator. The mediator will explain the process, and then allow each party time to express their position on the conflict, with no interruption. The mediator then helps the parties discuss the problem and come up with a solution. Mediation is not about “proving” anything; it’s about resolving differences to find a workable solution. Once the parties agree to the solution, the mediator writes it up, and each party signs it. This signed agreement can be enforced like a contract.
If you are unable to reach an agreement, you still have your other options.
Q. How should I prepare for mediation?
A. It is always helpful for you to jot down a few notes about the situation: how it started; how you have tried to address it; and how you feel about it. You should be prepared to discuss what has brought you to mediation and what your needs and interests are in the conflict. Your responsibilities are to:
- Decide what the issues are for you.
- Look for solutions.
- Work with the other parties to determine which solution is most appropriate.
Remember: you construct the agreement. The mediator leads the mediation. You should come to the mediation ready to work towards a solution to the problems involved in your dispute.
Q. What about privacy?
A. Mediation is confidential. Mediators are bound by law not to share any information relating to the session outside of the mediation. This confidentiality allows you to be comfortable working on tough issues. It creates an atmosphere where you can openly address the issues.
Q. How much does mediation cost?
A. The Center offers free or sliding-scale services to anyone with a dispute, regardless of whether they come in through the court system or independently.
Q. Where can I learn more about the legal basis for dispute resolution in Michigan?
A. To learn more, read Public Act 260 of 1988.